And also on this happy day, my manager actually pro-actively asked if i was leaving soon! In itself is nothing to be so joyous about, but for someone whose been thinking and just asking for a chance, a little reason, to up and quit, it was Godsend! For years, I’ve come to a realisation that this place was not for me, not for a long term sustainable work environment for a healthy lifestyle, but its a job and it pays bills, its familiar (做生不如做熟), and for all these little excuses, I’ve been delaying the actual announcement. But with time running short, with everyone/everything rushing me into a decision, with no real reason to stay, with no excuses left, with a better life waiting ahead, with an adventure waiting to start, I had little time. And I guess she saved me with her almost offhanded question.